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Being Seen Without Being Unsafe

Today, I experienced something that activated a long-held nervous system response.


For much of my life, visibility has felt unsafe — because early experiences taught me that being seen could make me vulnerbale to harm.


Today challenged that belief.


There was visibility. My body reacted. I felt the familiar surge — nerves, alertness, readiness.


And yet, nothing bad happened. I was safe. I did good. I left unharmed.


I’m not fixed — even though I created Silent Love Protocol.


SLP was never meant to fix me or anyone else. It’s a guide. A framework. A way to move through moments with more awareness and choice.


Today, I allowed SLP to guide me.


What I experienced wasn’t the absence of fear — it was proof that fear doesn’t always mean danger.


It was progress.


It was healing.


One step at a time.


I’m grateful for the experience and for those involved in helping my body learn something new today.


 
 
 

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